Hello everyone, my name is Goyo. I am here to share my journey of trying to start over in life at 41 years old. Yikes!
In 2015 I lost my father. It was something I didn’t really know how to respond to, too much reality all at once. There were questions I wanted to ask him about life and general things that I just wouldn’t ever be able to again. It was the first point in my life where I had no idea how to respond. After that, I got divorced after 14 years of marriage (together for 17 overall), it was tough, but it was the right thing to do. I was lucky in that my ex was reasonable and we just went our separate ways without bringing finance into it.
In 2016 I became an orbiter of a woman I thought was going to go somewhere, but it never did. I learned a lot from that experience and lost a ton of money from it. Live and learn, go forward and never make the same mistakes again.
In 2017 I started working towards paying off all my debt in my life, something I am still doing now.
In 2018 I started really focusing on improving myself, the purpose of this blog is not only to share my experience, but to also hold myself accountable to my goals.